Conflict to Connection

Conflict to Connection Love in and of itself, is not enough guarantee to have a lasting home. And that it takes wisdom and understanding to build a home. Here are some important lessons to take note from this sermon; Psychological signs that a relationship will not stand the test of time: I. Criticism II. Defensiveness III. Contempt IV. Stonewalling. Two things to learn about communication: I. We are different. II. Understand that there is a reason you are the way you are. Four important ways to create an environment of safety, which are; 1. Create a non-judgmental environment. 2. ⁠A clear line of communication. 3. ⁠There must be a deep sense of understanding. 4. ⁠Women must feel prioritized. There are four signs of defensiveness as mentioned earlier as a way of discernment; I. Making excuses. II. Cross complaining. III. “Yes but” IV. Body language and time change. Lastly, we learned about how to deal with them as listed below; 1. Take a short break. 2. ⁠Stick to the subject matter. 3. ⁠Future focus. As we journey through our marriage and relationships, we are instructed to take intentional steps to ensure a long-lasting and healthy home.🤗